My ode to autumn

October 16, 2021By Nancy CoinerOur lives now 8 Comments

For a few nerdy weeks between my junior and senior years of high school, I attended a Latin camp at Kansas University. I probably learned some Latin, but the big draw was being on a university campus several hours from home, surrounded by other nerdy kids. In other words, it was a trial run at … Read More

Summer vacation

September 23, 2021By Nancy CoinerOur lives now, Retirement Travel 6 Comments

“What did you do on your summer vacation?” It’s a reliable, if predictable, essay topic to assign when you want to get to know a batch of new high school kids. But in all my many years of teaching English, I never assigned it. Here’s why. In her first week of her first year of … Read More

Dolce far niente

July 15, 2021By Nancy CoinerOur lives now, Retirement issues 6 Comments

We retired people don’t need vacations for rest, the way we used to when we worked full-time. But most of us still crave the chance to change things up: to change the pace, change the place, and spend some time recharging. We need to vary things a little. I know I do. The Italians call … Read More

Relationship Advice

June 15, 2021By Nancy CoinerOur lives now, Retirement issues 9 Comments

The late, great Ruth Bader Ginsburg reported that, just before her wedding, her mother gave her some amusing advice for marriage: “Sometimes it helps to be a little deaf.” (She added it was also excellent advice for dealing with colleagues.) I thought of that story last year when I got asked by StoryWorth about relationship … Read More

The Merry, Merry Month of May

May 12, 2021By Nancy CoinerOur lives now, Retirement issues

What most people call Spring, I experience as Pollen Season. This month, all the plants and trees are soaking up the sunshine and rain and growing inches each day. They’re also putting out unbelievable amounts of yellow, dusty stuff that makes me sneeze like crazy. Thank goodness for antihistamines. Without them, I’d spend the whole … Read More

What’s in a name?

April 28, 2021By Nancy CoinerMulling things over, Our lives now 18 Comments

This year, I’ve been grateful not to be named Karen. (Who wants to embody a meme about white cluelessness?) On the other hand, I’ve never been thrilled to be named Nancy, either. When I was growing up, I didn’t mind it too much. I felt a kinship with the indomitable Nancy Drew, girl detective. And … Read More