What’s in a name?

April 28, 2021By Nancy CoinerMulling things over, Our lives now 18 Comments

This year, I’ve been grateful not to be named Karen. (Who wants to embody a meme about white cluelessness?) On the other hand, I’ve never been thrilled to be named Nancy, either. When I was growing up, I didn’t mind it too much. I felt a kinship with the indomitable Nancy Drew, girl detective. And … Read More

Another one bites the dust

April 13, 2021By Nancy CoinerOur lives now 6 Comments

Another bird feeder, that is. We live on the edges of a state park. So once the weather warms up, we remind ourselves every day to bring in the bird feeder at twilight. Inevitably, there comes an evening when we forget. We hear something clanking in the yard, and look outside, and guess what—there’s a … Read More

A gunfight in the family

April 8, 2021By Nancy CoinerMulling things over 1 Comment

In February of 1938, my mother’s stepfather was shot dead by his stepfather  — in broad daylight, on the streets of Baxter Springs, Kansas. Here’s what seems indisputable. Ted Roy, my mom’s stepfather, was walking home on a cool and cloudy Saturday morning when he spotted his mother’s ex-husband, Mike Giyer, driving down the street. … Read More