Little Shrines Everywhere

June 3, 2021By Nancy CoinerMulling things over 9 Comments

My step-daughter has spent this week moving into her first house. During the process of unpacking, she’s sent us pictures of the little islands of order she’s created, each one surrounded by a flotilla of boxes. Her experience has made me think of the whole process of making a house into a home: shoving the … Read More

What’s in a name?

April 28, 2021By Nancy CoinerMulling things over, Our lives now 18 Comments

This year, I’ve been grateful not to be named Karen. (Who wants to embody a meme about white cluelessness?) On the other hand, I’ve never been thrilled to be named Nancy, either. When I was growing up, I didn’t mind it too much. I felt a kinship with the indomitable Nancy Drew, girl detective. And … Read More

A gunfight in the family

April 8, 2021By Nancy CoinerMulling things over 1 Comment

In February of 1938, my mother’s stepfather was shot dead by his stepfather  — in broad daylight, on the streets of Baxter Springs, Kansas. Here’s what seems indisputable. Ted Roy, my mom’s stepfather, was walking home on a cool and cloudy Saturday morning when he spotted his mother’s ex-husband, Mike Giyer, driving down the street. … Read More